Hi, I’m Debbie R

At least, that’s what I want you to call me.

Welcome to Sex in the Suburbs, where I share my blossoming into a sexually enlightened being, in between piano lessons and mortgage repayments.

You could start here:

Confessions of a Suburban S*x Addict

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June 22, 2025
Confessions of a Suburban S*x Addict

Hi! My name’s not Debbie.

But it really gets interesting here:

My First Orgy

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October 11, 2025
My First Orgy

Natalie told us about a wine bar / sex club in a nearby suburb. We’d been hanging around that area for almost 15 years and never noticed it.

I’m not trying to change the world but if there was one thing I would influence if I could, it would be to encourage people to be more open and honest with their thoughts and feelings.

Talk about sex and bodies and relationships more so that the bizarre becomes more normal and we didn’t have to feel any shame around desire, attraction, hurt feelings, rejection, and acceptance.

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A suburban mother exploring sex, kink, and submission, one orgy at a time.

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